One of our very dear friends has made the claim that she does not want an engagement ring. Her reasons are true and steadfast and while many might slam her as a raging feminist, there is something emphatic and free spirited about her choice. It’s a decision that she’s had a hard time defending, not only to the older generation, but among same-age friends as well. The truth is, it’s nobody’s business why she does or doesn’t want a ring. In a society like the one we live in today it’s just as beautiful, timeless, and maybe even more sincere to have an alternative to the traditional engagement ring. The same might be said for shoes. In fact, the wedding gown, customary wedding vows, time-honored wedding rings…and well, let’s face it, the whole “orthodox wedding” in general, is changing. Since we know we’re not alone in our alternative thoughts, we’ve decided to give a little shout-out and ode to our fellow non-traditionalists. You’ll face slightly less obstacles with a non-traditional wedding shoe, it’s true, and as for the whole alternative engagement ring, well that’s an entirely different beast altogether. Here’s a few of our favorite alternative wedding shoes:

Something old, something new, something borrowed, something BLUE! These uber fun and dressy satin heels from Christian Louboutin just became our fantasy wedding shoe!

The fantasy shoe that still fits the classic standards of a wedding shoe with the added bonus of flavor and bling! These embellished peep-toes from Jimmy Choo are dreamy!

Simple would be putting in lightly, but the Calvin Klein - Lexa II (Ivory Satin) - Footwear is a ballerina flat you’ll be able to wear all day…and night long.

Green might be the last color you’d think of pairing with your white wedding gown, but the soft and subtle hue of these Caparros - Joelle (Martini Green Silk) - Footwear have us totally convinced.

Go very berry modern chic and wear your something blue right on your feet. The Badgley Mischka Randall is the perfect balance of classic meets modern.

For a green-themed casual affair try the White Glitter flats from TOMS Shoes. As an added bonus, the entire wedding party can wear them (in different colors) too!!

It’s flirty and girly and cheeky and fun! Yellow gives a sweet little pop to these Nina - Critia (Canary Luster Satin) - Footwear dress sandals. The feminine flower embellishment will look great once your dress is bustled for the post-nuptial festivities.

If a ballerina flat will fly than why not a flat sandal as well. It’s your wedding, after all. These pretty, flower-embellished thongs from Barneys are the perfect accessory for a beach wedding.

Carrie Bradshaw did it in SITC, so why can’t you. These Stuart Weitzman - Paradise (Midnight Satin) - Footwear are the perfect wedding “gown” accessory whether you’re eloping in Vegas or putting on a platinum style formal affair.

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